How many times have you seen a couple undertake a redecorating project only to end up with a room that both of them hated because neither got precisely what he or she wanted? In the end, both compromised on aspects of the project that they really should have remained firm upon so the end result is an unfocused project that does not resemble the original vision that either had when first undertaking the adventure. So, for those of you about to undertake a major redecorating project with a spouse and you want to survive with your marriage intact and a beautiful space when complete, here are some simple tips to help:
1. It always begins with a budget so the two of you need to agree upon a maximum dollar amount that you both are prepared to commit to this endeavor--then, create a budget based upon 80% of that figure to leave room for last-minute changes, overages, etc.
2.Have each of you state your goals and objectives with the project. This is going to be each person's "ideal" space. There should be a "must have" column and a "like to have" column.
3.Finally, combine the lists with the goal being to allow each person to have as many of their "must have" elements as possible. There is no magic formula here--the point is to come to an agreement before spending one penny or lifting a single hammer.
Each room will have its own unique constraints and needs so there is not going to be any one right way to remodel any space--period. Most of the disagreements and problems from joint decorating projects originate because of a lack of communication and/or organization. By simply compromising before spending the money or buying hideous home furnishings or light fixtures that you will end up hating for years to come--just take the time to hash it out first and you will be amazed at how much that improves your results! Find other great tips at http://www.simplytablelamps.com.